Wednesday, January 23, 2019

Of Cradle Rolls, Adoptions and Ubiquitous Organizing


Next month we have another Friday meeting, February 15!!!  Mark your calendar. 

Ubiquitous? Everywhere present, constantly encountered.  An apt description of Organizing in January. Especially for genealogists.  Organizing seems to be our nemesis and tips are ever present in blogposts, podcasts, webinars, magazines and lists of goals for the new year.  Even at our Genies meeting. 

Obliquity?  You'll need to turn to Linda's blogpost below for the definition of that word. 

Our group has turned out just the way I hoped.  A time for genies to make friends, share our successes and help each other uncover our family connections. 

The “success of the season” belongs to Margie C.’s family.  After 50 years of searching for their niece, she found them.  After Margie’s brother’s death in a plane crash in Alaska, they knew he had a daughter but they didn’t know her name or her mother’s name after she re-married.  The poignant retelling brought shared tears around the table.  A long-awaited reunion will take place soon.  Thanks, Margie. 

Linda Lambert brought along her mother’s cradle roll certificate and has posted “Cradle Rolls, Rabbit Holes, Serendipity Obliquity” on her blog.

 I always enjoy Linda’s word selection and unusual turns of phrases.  And especially her purple-themed photos that personalize her blog.  You can subscribe to her posts in the lower right corner.

Joe and Marjie F. spent July cleaning out Joe’s childhood in New York.  Marjie says they hadn’t thrown anything away since 1930.  What a job!  Joe brought back a wall-sized family tree from Adam and Eve to Jesus.  I have it in the Genies collection now for your enjoyment. 

Marjie is enjoying Loretta Willem’s writing group on 1st Mondays along with Linda B. and Elizabeth.  Marjie says Loretta really has gotten her writing and the class gives people a feeling that they can really can write.

David R., still here after the holidays, got tips in his search for his cousin’s adopted daughter’s birth parents.  This is a good place to come.  Several regulars are adopted and Cheryl has made the search for other people’s birth parents her life work.  They mentioned how to get non-identifying information which can be very helpful.  It has to mined for clues.  We are reminded that you don’t need a name to search; you can try a date and place alone.  Also if you have a birth certificate number, they often kept the original number after the names were changed to the adoptive parents.  Using the certificate number, you may turn up the original with the birth parents’ names.  Best advice:  try everything and don’t stop trying. 

I have been reading and listening to lots of info on Organizing Genealogy.  There are many methods and tips.  It seems like the bottom line is:  Find a system that works for you; that is, one that you will stick to.  There is always a question about whether to use paper or digital files.  I find that a mix works for me.  When I am actually researching, I need to be able to write things down.  Having a spiral notebook or pad seems to work for a lot of people.  But when I find the answers and documents, I find online storage works for me.

I recently set up a new system of using manila folders for projects (large and small) that are actually in progress and for ideas that I stumble on for lines I’m not currently working on.  I don’t want to file these away in my family binders…never to be seen again.  Linda L. and Sylvia also started folder systems. 

Sylvia is a using a folder system for her DNA matches.  Remember her DNA match profile form from last week.  Each match has its own folder containing the profile form along with her hand-written work notes and, very important, their color-coded family trees.  Sylvia and CeCe Moore tell us that you need to just build trees for your matches who don’t have them.  Cheryl, too.  When will I start building trees, seriously and constantly, like they do?

A big thank you to Cheryl who is still working on David’s Culver DNA matches.  It is a huge job and she hasn’t given up yet.

Remember Friday, February 15 for the next Genie meeting.


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